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Sunday, October 6, 2013

Being Faithful in a Success Obsessed Culture


Mother Teresa was once asked if she was mindful of success, while working with the poorest of the poor in Calcutta, India. After all, it would be practically impossible for the Missionaries of Charity to care for all of the sick and dying in the area. To which Mother Teresa responded: " God does not call me to be successful, only to be faithful."

When I first came across this anecdote, I was distraught by it, I didn't know what to think. It was the Spring of my Senior year in High School and I was in the midst of compiling my portfolio for my Senior Writing course. The theme of my portfolio was: Success. 

Every young person yearns to be successful. We are told that we need to study diligently during our elementary and middle school years so that we can be admitted to a good High School where will take advanced placement courses and study for standardized tests months before we take them, so that we can attend a good University, earn an undergraduate degree, get a good job, go to graduate school, climb the corporate ladder, get a raise, buy a nice house, buy a nice car, have adequate savings, save for retirement, work, socialize, vacation and once you have worked a 40 hour week for 40 straight years you may retire. This is success. . . but in the midst of all our studying, working, driving, purchasing and money saving, where are we glorifying God? Where are we being fulfilled? Where are we recognizing the truth? Where are we actualizing our rational nature? 

The answer should be "everywhere, and in all things!" Often during High School, I was told by my guidance counselors, teachers, and coaches that in order to be successful I needed to work hard. I do not doubt that these people wanted the best for me, but they neglected to communicate a key aspect of what it means to be an active follower of Christ: it does not matter if we are successful in this world, because the way the world measures success and the way Christ measures success are completely different. The way that the world often views success is through temporary vision: fortune, popularity, career and education. The way that Christ views success is through eternal vision: humility, love of truth, faithfulness and child-like learning. In order to be truly successful, we need to glorify God through all of our daily actions. 

It is possible to be faithful and glorify God through striving for worldly success, but it is very difficult. There is a famous story in the New Testament of Christ conversing with a young, rich man; the rich man is successful in the eyes of his culture, he is rich, young, popular and strives to follow the commandments of God. He asks Jesus: what else can I do? To which Jesus responds: sell all you have and give it to the poor, then come follow me. The young man is distraught, and walks away because he "had many possessions".

I had the fortune of earning a higher education at Wyoming Catholic College; a college that recognized the necessity of learning and gaining knowledge for the real world, while also recognizing that learning should be focused on glorifying God and not on climbing the corporate ladder. Moreover, many of my classmates are working in well-paid positions and have found their niche in the corporate world. But they recognize that with their monetary successes, they are ultimately not called to worldly success, they are called toward the more lasting success of eternal life.

I have been thinking about success more recently, perhaps because of my age and career placement. Being twenty four years old, with a B.A. degree and working in a seasonal job industry I am continually asked the infamous question from peers, co-workers, friends and acquaintances: "what do you want to be when you grow up?". Often when I am asked this question I am stumped. . .  "I am grown up", "A detective" and "Your wife" are my main answers. Just kidding about the last answer, but thinking about it, maybe I'll use that sometime.

Since I graduated from college in 2011, I have been following my passion for the outdoors and education. Many outdoor jobs are seasonal and because of this I have moved a couple times and had several jobs in the past two years. From working as an Intern Instructor at  an outdoor science school in Jackson, Wyoming to working as a logistics coordinator at an outdoor school in Lander, Wyoming, to working as a backpacking, rafting and mountain biking leader in the Rocky Mountains in Colorado to teaching outdoor education in Adirondack Park in New York. To some, I may seem to be "job hopping", living the "YOLO" life of a young twenty-something. And there may be some truth to these thoughts. I enjoy meeting new people, learning new skills, discovering new places and the challenge of sharing my life, opinions, background etc with people of different backgrounds.

This seasonal job hopping habit of mine has not been extremely lucrative, but it has brought me something that I value more than money, it has brought me fulfillment. I feel fulfilled because I believe that this is where God is calling me. There is a certain peacefulness that comes with following the will of God, and with every choice we make, whether it be small or large we must strive to find and follow His will. It is when our will recognizes, accepts and follows His Will that true success starts happening. We may not be able to be materially successful from this trusting lifestyle, but thankfully that is not what God wants. "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal..." (Matthew 6:19)

May we all strive to understand through the study of the life of Mother Teresa and the saints that material and worldly success does not matter as much as being faithful to the Will of God.



"I will sail my vessel, till the river runs dry
Like a bird upon the wind these waters are my sky
I'll never reach my destination if I never try
So I'll sail my vessel till the river runs dry. 

There's bound to be rough waters
And I know I'll take some falls
But with the good Lord as my Captain
I will make it though them all."
-Garth Brooks, "The River"

Monday, April 8, 2013

Working for a Non-for Profit Nature Society





Recently, I started working for the Delaware Nature Society .
I love their mission:
  • to foster understanding, appreciation, and enjoyment of the natural world through education
  • to preserve ecologically significant areas
  • to advocate stewardship and conservation of natural resources
As an outdoorsy sorta girl, I revel in outdoor education, preservations, and being a steward of the earth. 

 I am not the sit in a cubicle type, so any opportunity I find that allows me to work with my hands in the outdoors I am all about. I have been working with horses for over a decade, I love backpacking, camping, biking, skiing, and just about any outdoor activity. I got my first job in the outdoor education field when I was 18 as a camp counselor; since then, I have worked at 3 other over night camps and loved the experience.

    Nature preserves have always been one of my favorite go to places. I love being able to see a piece of untouched nature.  Walking the streets of any city, it is easy to forget about the neat critters around you, or you may even be trying very hard to get rid of the critters around you I.E large sewer rats.   In a preservation, it's like walking into your neighbors house to see what goes on in there; with out seeming to much like a creep. 

     Moreover, I love being an advocate for environmental stewardship. I view environmental stewardship as good house keeping. A good house keeper tends to their home at all times, ie. cares for the roof before it leaks, in the same manner; a human must tend to the earth's needs before real issues arrise. For instance, it is a good to clean up the trash around your neighborhood, but it is even better to not trash up the neighborhood in the first place.

   I am very pleased to share that I am enjoying my life at the Delaware Nature Society.  Working with this organization has allowed me to share my interest with others. What's your "thing" that you enjoy sharing with other people? 

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Thrifty Thursday! DIY: Food Coloring Easter Egg Dye





In preparation for Easter Sunday I have found an awesome
 website on Dying Easter eggs with food Coloring!
This is a super thrifty way to do this (which is why I love it)
Skip to My Lou is the name of this cute website and it's loaded with a ton of
fun information.

A brake down of the cost of this project:

1. eggs $ 2-4
2. Gel Food Coloring $ 3.49 ( found that price on the web)
place I found Gel Dye


Thats about all you need totaling at about $6.
Egg dying kits can cost any where from a few dollars to quite a few, so why not use food color or something that you can use for cooking more than once.

Thanks for reading!
Let the Triduum { three days before Easter Sunday, beginning with Mass tonight}Begin!









Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Wacky Wednesday: Styrofoam Cup Artist

                           




Being an Artist 'almost' entitles you to be wacky. 
This guy, known as Boey, has taken it to a whole new level. He has become an artist 
by using the medium he had available at a coffee shop. He enjoyed the challenge 
of working with cups and has a very large collection of his works. 
Creating art work on different types of mediums can be out of the ordinary or even down right wacky, but it gives us a  new prospective about what is necessary for one to be great. 

I am not implying that it is ever ok to tag {graffiti} a building, but what I am endorsing here is that one should never feel restricted by the medium. We are all called to be great, but it is not until we realize that the medium is not our limitation but that it is our inspiration. We should not be upset with what little we have, but instead lets get 'wacky' and use the bare essentials.  Sheryl Crow gets it right by stating: " it's not having what you want, it's wanting what you have."



So here is where I adress you, the reader, to share a bit about what wacky project/s you have completed (or in the process of ) with a very simple medium?
 Please Share Pictures in the comments! 
Happy Wednesday!




Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Terrific Tuesday! Robert Frost





'The Road Not Taken' & 'Stopping by the Woods on a Snowy Evening' are my top two favorite Frost poems.
I had a very neat professor, Dr. Carlson, who taught me to truly appreciate poetry. 
 He moved vivaciously around the classroom as he recited memorized poems, and showed us how to feel the meter. Through his teachings I have ingrained poetry to my heart. He would often quote the last three lines of 'The Road Not Taken' 
{ Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
and that has made all the difference. }


The first poem, with the help of Dr. Carlson, I admitted to memory is 'Stopping by the Woods on a Snowy evening.' 
The two poems are here for you to read, re-read, & memorize.
What are your favorite Frost poems? 





The Road Not Taken       
roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear,
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I marked the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference. 





Monday, March 25, 2013

Musical Monday: Pontoon



Today it finally snowed here in Delaware!
But mentally I am ready for the sun and some pontooning.

If you are mentally ready to lay out in the sun please share with us your favorite spring/ summer activities.



Sunday, March 24, 2013

My Palm Sunday Cross

I made this cross after Church today:









If you made a Palm Sunday Cross
We'd love if you share your picture. It would be wonderful to see all the different
crosses.